29 September 2009 - 18:53How much is your loyalty worth?
Today, I had a discussion with a friend who is in a raiding guild, about a guild policy that they had. Their policy, as I gathered from my friend’s words and my own observation, is as follows:
On any and all raids, progression and farm alike, you may be pulled out of the raid for any boss, if the leaders feel they do not need your specific role or class at that moment. This might be for the rest of the instance, or just a few bosses, you may not be told anything definite. It might be a hardmode or normal, it might even be something you could have steamrolled in your current setup.
The policy seems to be that if there is a better option, that better option will be utilized, regardless of whether it is needed to beat the encounter. My friend spoke of this as if it was perfectly natural. (He did casually mention that if you kept signing up and were “very good”, eventually they would stop replacing you, perhaps assuming that this made it all okay. I inferred that “very good” should also refer to the state of your relationship with the people in charge.)
The other day, while I was “helping” this guild on a farm raid, I kept noticing that every boss attempt, a few people would hearth out or log off, and some new people would be summoned in. Knowing that the guild had problems with attendance, I had just assumed those people were filling in spots until the latecomers arrived, or maybe they were alts just helping, or maybe some of them had irl issues and had to go.
I was astonished when I realised it hadn’t been just those. Some of those people were simply being removed, because there was a better option online to beat an encounter they had on farm. Maybe they would be invited back, maybe they would not.
When I said that I could never commit four hours a day, three or four times a week, to raiding, knowing that I could be sat out on any content for an unknown amount of time if a better option came up, my friend responded “With this attitude, how will you find a better guild? I have been in many guilds, and most of them had this policy. You will not be able to get into any guild thinking like this.” He added, “If I am left out, I just go PVP and earn DKP by not even being in the raid. I don’t see why it is such a big deal.”
“Barring the fact that you set aside this time to raid, with an implied promise by the guild that you were being invited to raid – and now you’re spending it PVPing just in case you are needed again, when the boss would have been just as dead with you there?” I wanted to respond, but somehow managed to hold my tongue. He is rather protective of his guild.
I, of course, acknowledge that this policy and similar policies have a place. In an extremely high-end guild, or on progression content, or on farm content that is not manageable with the current setup. (Even on progression content, I know of many guilds who would rather make it work with the people who have signed up and stuck with the raid through the wipes, than bring in new people, but I digress.)
The guild in question is middle of the road by the server standards. Which was the reason why I looked into them to begin with, and which was the reason why this policy was a big surprise.
If an encounter is otherwise not defeatable, sitting out isn’t just selfless, it’s the only option. This situation comes up in every raiding guild. It is completely understandable. However, if people are frequently requested to sit out to obtain optimal makeup through content where the guild is beyond needing it – it really scares me that I’m seemingly the only person who has a problem with this.
If we take a general look, many guilds expect that you will fully dedicate yourself to the guild, and maintain this loyalty. You will be expected to keep certain attendance requirements, turn up on time repaired with needed consumables, read up on strategies, contribute to the guild bank, and various other rules that are laid down by the guild. It is all for “the guild”, this faceless entity that demands your time, effort and respect.
What most of these faceless entities don’t realise is that this is a two-way street. The guild and its members enter into an agreement, and both sides make implied promises to each other.
If members will be loyal to the guild and its aim, a good guild in turn is expected to be loyal to its members, and not just those who are favored by the GM and officers. If the members provide for the guild bank, the bank needs to provide for them. If members turn up when the raid is due to start, they expect that the raid is started on time, and ends on time. It should not only be the individual members that are expected to fulfill the promises they made when they filled out the application form.
I was in a 40 man raiding guild for roughly a year during vanilla. This was a guild that raided seven days a week, and had strict attendance requirements. Expectations from members, in attitude and skill, were high. You had to be punctual, you had to play well, you had to have read strategies and had to be able to follow commands. You were expected to have the best gear you could have outside of raids before you were even considered for a raid spot. Leaving before the raid was called was absolutely unheard of, being late always cost you DKP and a raid spot.
In return, the members knew that the guild would not just be a guild, it would be a true home for them. Most members knew each other very well and greeted each other by their real names. New babies, weddings, engagements were celebrated together. The camaraderie was encouraged by the guild leaders, who themselves were very close friends.
Loyal members who had to go on extended breaks always came back to the raid spots they left, even if that meant the guild would have to go with one or two less or a class for some time. We had a longtime member who had to be away for very long periods every summer. Everytime he came back he would promptly start signing to raids, and he would still be welcome with his old rank, in his old spot, as if he never left. He had stuck by the guild during rough times, and the guild was returning the favor.
My guild had an enhancement shaman. With a Sulfuras, which was awarded to him by the same guild. (You must realise that during vanilla WOW, a raiding enhancement shaman was more of a rarity than the actual legendary.) We even had a second one. We had an elemental one, too. We had a demonology warlock. We had arms and fury warriors. All of these were specs that no sane raiding guild would recruit at the time, yet my guild had them on their roster – the leaders being of the mind that the person behind the character is much more important than the character itself.
In exchange for the required donations to the bank, we got flasks, high end enchanting materials, and various recipes upon request. We were always required to do the best we could, on our own, nothing less was expected – but when we couldn’t, the guild bank was there to help.
Raid signups were on the website every week for the entire week. We would be expected to only sign for raids we were absolutely sure we could make, as soon as we humanly could. In exchange, lineups were often finalized one day in advance, at the latest a couple of hours before the raid – our leadership realised that those who were not chosen would want to know ahead of time so that they could plan their night differently. Those who sat out were not expected to be present at raid time. Notes of who had to sit out were kept, to ensure the rotation was fair.
I come from a guild culture like this. A guild where the members obeyed the rules laid out and made everything run smoothly. In exchange, we got more than a raid every night – we got an atmosphere where we were respected and loved as individuals and treated fairly. We had a 40-man raiding guild where the majority of the members were in harmony, and those that weren’t didn’t last long anyway.
My guild was not a nameless, faceless entity – it was the quiet rogue I lent some Greater Eternals to, it was my arrogant, talented demo warlock friend, it was the amazingly skilled mage officer who got our first 8/8 T2. It was the boisterous hunter with the Scottish accent, the bouncy Pakistani shaman, and the French mother of one. My guild was those people whose company I genuinely enjoyed, and those I meant something to as a person.
The guild was not perfect, but the basic premise was simple: Give effort and respect, and get effort and respect in return, no matter what your position in the guild.
In this case, again, it is all about respect. I found the guild’s attitude towards its members extremely disrespectful. If I commit my time and effort to raiding, I would like to know in advance whether I’m in or out. If I have to sit out for a boss once in a while because the encounter is undefeatable otherwise, no problem. Just let me know when I will be needed back. Doing it any other way implies that the members’ time is somehow not valuable.
I can’t imagine agreeing to all these conditions that everyone who plays the game and deems themselves fit to raid agree to. I can’t think of myself in yet another guild, fulfilling my end of the agreement, with the guild barely attempting to fulfill theirs. I can’t fathom being in a guild where I’m just another priest who’s expendable if something better happens to log on, damn the loyalty I’ve shown.
But most of all, I could not understand my friend’s matter of fact demeanor, the way he looked down on me when he said “With this attitude, how will you find a better guild?”. Is this really the norm? Is this really what the current raiding scene is like? Shall I just give up and throw in the towel, because I will never find a guild “with this kind of attitude” – because apparently, having expectations from your guild besides “ok, kill these bosses and gief me epix” is not acceptable? Why is it that most guilds etch their requirements into the brains of their members but don’t bother to treat them as something slightly more valuable than dirt?
When I join a guild, I am willing to not only offer my services as a priest or a druid, but also respect, dedication, loyalty, maturity, understanding and friendship. These things are what many guilds out there claim they look for, and what every truly good player should be able to provide. And any guild, if they aspire to be a truly good guild, should perhaps consider that the price tags on such things are not simply a few epics, but much, much more.
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